Zendaya and Tom Holland Engaged After Three Years Together

A shiny New Year! After publicly dating for three years, Zendaya and Tom Holland are officially engaged. According to a source, “They spent the holidays with her family, and that’s when Tom found a private moment to pop the question.” Par for the course for the lowkey couple, “it wasn’t over the top, but it was romantic.”

The Challengers actress and Marvel action star, both 28, met as costars of 2017’s Spider-Man: Homecoming and have been intentionally private about their romance. Tom revealed in early January that they avoid joint red-carpet appearances, reasoning, “If we go together, it [becomes] about us.”

Despite being solo just days later at the Jan. 5 Golden Globes, however, nominee Zendaya couldn’t possibly be discreet about the relationship, thanks to the massive sparkler on her left ring finger. “Zendaya didn’t confirm or deny the ring’s significance that night,” says the source, “but to her friends at the show, she was happy to show off the ring and accept their congratulations.”

Zendaya and Tom, who have each spoken about their love of working together — and are gearing up for a fourth Spider-Man collaboration — “respect each others’ work and are so supportive,” says the source. “They align well. They’ll be keeping wedding details out of the public forum, but their friends believe it will be on a small scale, elegant and ultra-private.”