For singles over 50, re-entering the dating world can feel overwhelming, especially with the rise of online dating and shifting relationship expectations. A recent study shows that only 17% of adults 50 and older have used a dating app or site, highlighting the unique challenges this age group faces in modern romance.
April Davis, founder of Luma Luxury Matchmaking, has spent years helping clients navigate relationships and believes dating over 50 is about confidence, communication, and a willingness to embrace new experiences.
“To find your own, unique edge in the dating scene, brush up on whats going on in the dating world so that you can thrive,” Davis says.
Davis, who’s been featured on Bravos “Real Housewives of Orange County,” encourages using dating apps cautiously, as many are designed for casual encounters rather than serious relationships. Instead, she suggests joining group classes, workshops, or community events to meet people in a more organic, low-pressure environment.
For those serious about finding a partner, age-based Silver Fox singles events provide a space where participants in a similar age range share similar relationship goals.
Communication is key, Davis says, especially when blending families or making major life changes. She advises being honest about long-term intentions, particularly when discussing future living arrangements, finances, or family dynamics.
Davis says compromise doesnt mean settling; its about finding solutions that work for both partners. She encourages singles to reassess rigid dealbreakers while still maintaining core values, allowing for more meaningful connections.
Ultimately, Davis believes patience is essential when dating later in life, especially when it comes to blending families. Rushing into relationships rarely leads to success, but taking time to build trust and understanding lays the groundwork for something lasting.
Since founding Luma Luxury Matchmaking in 2010, Davis has built a network of over 1 million vetted singles. Her firm specializes in personalized matchmaking, offering a high-end alternative to online dating.
For those looking to find love again, Davis emphasizes one key takeaway: good things come with time — and the right match is worth the wait.